Man bones is like a child,
especially married men, out of total working hard day to go home with his wife
like a child like a baby, some women understand: "Why husband always so naive?",
In fact, that a man naive side of the psychologist is normal, just different
ways of thinking with a woman.
Gender Secret: Why so naive husband
Lead to differences in genetic
36-year-old project manager living in the stadium next to the Long Juan of an apartment where every weekend, he would like to call on friends to play football or basketball, the district where the children also joined. He said: "We do not set formal team, but also no competitive means, or even necessarily in the so-called standard rules, we just play together is like a child, as every time I can play porch, all the troubles have been thrown to the winds. "
Women are often surprised with the gentle man suddenly looked into their children - their feet to fiddle with the iron box, or a full day to tinker with something in, removed the equipment, installed and then removed.
Are men more likely to recover innocence and become carefree, and deficiencies in this respect a woman? Is it because they are potential mothers, so the more responsible, and pleasant missed? Mental analyst Mary - Rohr - Keluo Na (Marie-Laure Colonna) said: "Men are not necessarily more likely to accept their inner child. But, the performance of them is more superficial childish, more obvious, while women are more concerned about his heart. Jung once said, good collection of all human subconscious, 1000 million years of human life have left their mark bit by bit, and today most of the men grew out of the game are keen prehistoric hunting activities, while women stay in cave near the genetic cause of this difference in behavior between men and women: men longer than the action, poor communication, a woman is good at words. "
Woman's "time cruising"
As a woman like a man through the game to communicate with their children face, is how they do it? 32-year-old female lawyer Lin Tong fell in love with Salsa dancing, she said: "The dance floor was a fun and imaginative music sounded, my heart involuntarily pleasure together. The process of continuous exchange partner, everyone was happy to pass energy, have become the dance floor full of happy energy of infinite time and space. what chores, sad ... I forget everything! "
"Gender-related games," psychiatrist, psychoanalyst Jill - Fuer Mai (Gilles Formet) said, "the girl likes to play dolls, play house, while boys are more like cars and football. The boy grew up, remains for him to play the game; and women doing housework or taking care of children, childhood becomes a responsibility of the game, so if you want to reconnect with their children hidden linkages, women often try to transform those who can make their role activities such as drama, painting or dance in these activities, they can discard the shackles of everyday, just like in the game as a child. "
In fact, the so-called hidden children and their own re-establish contact, not that the future and the past aside and threw himself to enjoy now? Greeks to the concept of time is divided into two: one is social time, used in order to obtain benefits for the purpose of activities, such as making a living; the other is the primitive time, with the meaning of time itself. After a time in order to make our inner child reunion.
Mary - Rohr - Keluo Na said: "Women know how to escape the social time, a ray of light, a bouquet of flowers, a fabric can make their imagination, and no desire to share. This capability is a irreplaceable source of energy. "This energy is the difference between childish and childlike.
Men need to play
Why, then, child temperament, a deep well-known author of works of art, men more than women seem to do? Therapist Bruce Lee that because a man may hand them in real life more depressed state of mind of children, so more of them in the work release. Like Stephen, usually seems to be particularly modest, decent, actually frolic in the film, ridicule, cynicism, segregation orthodox, his name has become a "senseless" synonymous.
Many women complain that their partners together with the children when they become like a child, Jill - Fuer Mai warned: "The wife should not blamed her husband, or that the mother should not blame his father that. Need more than the mother and father children play together, but also need partners with their male pastime, because fewer men to express themselves through words in the play, the men will not use words to express some of the valuable knowledge to children. "
This field to show the differences between the sexes is much greater than other areas. Important is that everyone can succeed with their inner child to re-establish contact, because the "losing him / her, is the loss of the source of life, loss of enjoyment of life." Mary - Rohr - Ke Luona concluded: "inner child is the source of creativity, with him / her, we will always taste the fragrance of life, and draw strength from."
My man naive it?
Women often complain that their men are immature. Man naive performance in the end, what does? Mary - Rohr - Keluo Na said: "He always acts like a boy." For example, such a man to play with their children together with their friends as the same can not show his father's dignity. This is often because they do not have to complete in the subconscious and the mother's separation. If they have a mother heart, forbid them grow up. They tend to love sports, love to travel, purchase things, to spend time together, the pursuit of lively external life, to compensate for the inner world of gloomy depression.
Why do some women prefer this type of man? This is because the man himself as naive, you can safely play a strong role of the mother.
Gender Secret: Why so naive husband
Lead to differences in genetic
36-year-old project manager living in the stadium next to the Long Juan of an apartment where every weekend, he would like to call on friends to play football or basketball, the district where the children also joined. He said: "We do not set formal team, but also no competitive means, or even necessarily in the so-called standard rules, we just play together is like a child, as every time I can play porch, all the troubles have been thrown to the winds. "
Women are often surprised with the gentle man suddenly looked into their children - their feet to fiddle with the iron box, or a full day to tinker with something in, removed the equipment, installed and then removed.
Are men more likely to recover innocence and become carefree, and deficiencies in this respect a woman? Is it because they are potential mothers, so the more responsible, and pleasant missed? Mental analyst Mary - Rohr - Keluo Na (Marie-Laure Colonna) said: "Men are not necessarily more likely to accept their inner child. But, the performance of them is more superficial childish, more obvious, while women are more concerned about his heart. Jung once said, good collection of all human subconscious, 1000 million years of human life have left their mark bit by bit, and today most of the men grew out of the game are keen prehistoric hunting activities, while women stay in cave near the genetic cause of this difference in behavior between men and women: men longer than the action, poor communication, a woman is good at words. "
Woman's "time cruising"
As a woman like a man through the game to communicate with their children face, is how they do it? 32-year-old female lawyer Lin Tong fell in love with Salsa dancing, she said: "The dance floor was a fun and imaginative music sounded, my heart involuntarily pleasure together. The process of continuous exchange partner, everyone was happy to pass energy, have become the dance floor full of happy energy of infinite time and space. what chores, sad ... I forget everything! "
"Gender-related games," psychiatrist, psychoanalyst Jill - Fuer Mai (Gilles Formet) said, "the girl likes to play dolls, play house, while boys are more like cars and football. The boy grew up, remains for him to play the game; and women doing housework or taking care of children, childhood becomes a responsibility of the game, so if you want to reconnect with their children hidden linkages, women often try to transform those who can make their role activities such as drama, painting or dance in these activities, they can discard the shackles of everyday, just like in the game as a child. "
In fact, the so-called hidden children and their own re-establish contact, not that the future and the past aside and threw himself to enjoy now? Greeks to the concept of time is divided into two: one is social time, used in order to obtain benefits for the purpose of activities, such as making a living; the other is the primitive time, with the meaning of time itself. After a time in order to make our inner child reunion.
Mary - Rohr - Keluo Na said: "Women know how to escape the social time, a ray of light, a bouquet of flowers, a fabric can make their imagination, and no desire to share. This capability is a irreplaceable source of energy. "This energy is the difference between childish and childlike.
Men need to play
Why, then, child temperament, a deep well-known author of works of art, men more than women seem to do? Therapist Bruce Lee that because a man may hand them in real life more depressed state of mind of children, so more of them in the work release. Like Stephen, usually seems to be particularly modest, decent, actually frolic in the film, ridicule, cynicism, segregation orthodox, his name has become a "senseless" synonymous.
Many women complain that their partners together with the children when they become like a child, Jill - Fuer Mai warned: "The wife should not blamed her husband, or that the mother should not blame his father that. Need more than the mother and father children play together, but also need partners with their male pastime, because fewer men to express themselves through words in the play, the men will not use words to express some of the valuable knowledge to children. "
This field to show the differences between the sexes is much greater than other areas. Important is that everyone can succeed with their inner child to re-establish contact, because the "losing him / her, is the loss of the source of life, loss of enjoyment of life." Mary - Rohr - Ke Luona concluded: "inner child is the source of creativity, with him / her, we will always taste the fragrance of life, and draw strength from."
My man naive it?
Women often complain that their men are immature. Man naive performance in the end, what does? Mary - Rohr - Keluo Na said: "He always acts like a boy." For example, such a man to play with their children together with their friends as the same can not show his father's dignity. This is often because they do not have to complete in the subconscious and the mother's separation. If they have a mother heart, forbid them grow up. They tend to love sports, love to travel, purchase things, to spend time together, the pursuit of lively external life, to compensate for the inner world of gloomy depression.
Why do some women prefer this type of man? This is because the man himself as naive, you can safely play a strong role of the mother.
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